In America, we used to want to be considered classy. That has now disappeared in many places.

My parents taught me that when someone does me a kindness or gives me a gift, it’s classy to write them a thank you note.

The notes can be short – they don’t need to be long.

I have my own stationery, little cards with an Irish shamrock on them, for this exact purpose.

I write my letter, sign my name, put a stamp on it and send it in the mail. Not many people do this – but it’s certainly classy. 

You might want to get yourself some cards and do what I do. People will find it classy.